



There never seems to be a ‘right time’ to start thinking about your retirement does there?
In my teens, when I first started working part time, I absolutely loved having my own disposable income; some financial freedom from my parents where I no longer had to ask their permission to buy stuff. I could save, spend (and spend some more) as and when I wished. I was probably the wealthiest I’ve ever been!
When I got handed a pensions application form on my first day at my new job working as a Sales Assistant for a high street fashion retailer, I popped it to one side amongst the copies of my contract ready to be filed away. Retirement? Ha! – I was 18! Plenty of time for that.
In my twenties, my priorities shifted somewhat. I took out a student loan despite living at home with my parents, and felt quite proud of myself when I saved the entire amount to use as a deposit for my own flat.
My first ‘real’ jobs came along and again the pension forms arrived. This time, as a result of my Mum nagging me to complete them (wise woman!), I signed up and opted for the bare minimum, with a small amount of my take home salary being added to a pension pot.
In my early thirties, our daughters came along. Already paying for my share of the mortgage and household bills, my priorities turned towards funding nappies and paying for childcare, and despite knowing that I probably should be saving more towards my future, the immediate expenses of a family of four always understandably seemed to take a priority. As I have moved jobs and changed roles over the years, the pension forms have been completed when I signed my contract, never really to be looked at again.


Whilst I do have a pension, I pay in the bare minimum each month, and could definitely do a lot more to prepare for my retirement; which now at the age of 35, no longer feels an eternity away.
If you’d have asked me 6 months ago how much I had in my pension(s), of which I now have a few – my answer would have been extremely vague (it’s safe to say I didn’t have a clue).
I didn’t know where the paperwork was, I didn’t know how to check them and I had absolutely no idea how much money I could expect to receive when I reached retirement age. I am sure many of you will be the same – I am definitely not the only one who has put pensions on the back burner.
In a weird way, preparing for your retirement should be seen as a form of self care, sewing a little now to harvest in the future, but like many self care elements as a modern female, we seem to spend so long looking after other people that our own care comes at the bottom of the list.


It appears I am not alone. Recent research from Scottish Widows Women & Retirement report suggests that many women aren’t planning their pensions early enough, with a THIRD of women not saving adequately (compared to 46% of men their age). Given that statistically women live longer and generally earn less, this is more than a little worrying!
Their report found that on average, men hold nearly twice the amount of savings than women do (Men – 66,604 and Women 33,779).
Whilst auto enrolment has helped (with employers automatically taking pension deductions from salaries for those aged 22 and above who are earning over £10,000 per year), the amounts are very small at just 5% of salary, so despite this, just 33% of 22-29 year olds are saving adequately compared to 46% of men.
Most concerning, 25% of women aged 22-29 aren’t saving for retirement at all, potentially choosing to opt out of their pension arrangements all together.
Scottish Widows are pushing to help improve this, identifying the issues that women are facing and trying to remove potential barriers that may be preventing women from saving adequately.
They are calling for women to #empoweryourfuture, taking a few moments out of your day to learn more about their current financial situation, and take some improvement steps to better prepare ourselves for retirement. Whilst for some, the mere mention of the word pensions is enough to bring you out in a cold sweat, it’s actually far less complicated than it sounds…
Last month I headed down to the Scottish Widows Pensions Awareness Day tour, and spoke to the team of experts at Scottish Widows to try and understand more about the issues affecting women and pensions, as well as posing some of your questions you asked me over on Facebook about planning for retirement.


Thanks to the Scottish Widows Pensions Wellbeing Hub, you can now demystify many of your pension queries all in one easy to access place.
Over at the Pension Wellbeing Hub you will find:


I am feeling a lot more in control of my pension now, and know what I need to do to get it to the level I’d like it to be in order to live comfortably in my later years.
So let’s stop saying “I’ll think about it later”, because before we know it, the 6 year old we are in our heads becomes a 60 year old, and I for one don’t want to be worrying about whether I will be able to afford my food shop by the end of each week.
Click here to read the full Scottish Widows Women & Retirement report and visit the Scottish Widows Pension Wellbeing Hub to learn more.
*This is a sponsored post in conjunction with Scottish Widows and Mumsnet Influencers.


You are so right! It is so easy to just bury your head in the sand and not spend some time planning for the future. Especially with busy life’s and kids! Thanks for sharing your tips:)